have children right now
Now that R and I have gotten married...quite a handful of friends, relatives and even co-workers have been asking us "so, when are you going to have a baby?" That's pressure! And we've only been married for less than 3 months. Funny thing is that my mom and MIL haven't asked and may be keeping it to themselves, even though I KNOW they are so ready for grandchildren. I'm turning 34 this year, and I know the clock is ticking, those ovaries are turning into prunes as I type this. Guys are lucky in this, that they never have to worry about it! They can have kids when they are 80 years old. Ugh. We're both ready to have kids...we've talked about it and even have names picked out! He wants a big family and I'm comfortable with whatever I can pop out! 2 is perfect...a boy and a girl...and if I have twins on the first try...that's even more awesome! But then again, I also want to spend more time together as a couple, traveling and enjoying opportunities that you won't really have anymore after kids. Is that being selfish?